YOLO !!

First of all for those who don't know what does YOLO means , it stands for " You only lives once" this basically means that you have got one life and do whatever you what to do this time only , be who you always wanted to be , behave the way you always wanted to and achieve what you have always desired of. 

Although I have strong believe in this idea who admiring this very form of life which the god has presented us to be the most magnificent of ourselves but some how I don't connect whit this phrase which say " you only live once" well as matter of fact "we live every day of our lives and we only die once", do not you also think so .

but than a second thought comes to my mind that actually be die a more then once and we actually lives only once . 

You might be thinking I am confusing you well trust me I have no intentions of doing that just go on with your reading and you will be able to realise what wanted to share .

We die a couple of time in our life and do you know why ? Well if not physically but  mentally we kill ourself often in our life and thats only because we kill our most prestigious dreams, we scarifies our dreams for something we never wanted and for being someone we never thought we would be and at last we end up being some one who  is completely  a different personality from our very own actual self ,we just carry a body of individual of who has different plans ,different lifestyle, different personality and our actual self is buried deep inside us, that actual self calls your every day,every moment to be free but cause  we are all so busy in being in our life or I should say stuck that we never pay attention to what we actually want and what the real part of us want and even if we want to we are not able to answer these calls .

Today, after reading this just give your self 10 to 15 minutes and ask your self is this what you wanted to do ,is this what you always wanted to be and most importantly is this the way you thought your behaviour should be , if you get the answer like yes this the what I always wanted to do in my life and yes I am ready to bear all the consequences because I chose this life then trust me you are awesome and just stick to your life even if things are not going your way because at end  of your life you will have the pleasure and you will be proud that you didn't just survived your life but you actually enjoyed the life you chose for you and I am sure no one would ever want to be on the death bed and thinking I wished I would have done this or that, at least I don't want my life to end with all these regrets .

If after those 10 minutes of introspection you find your inner self yelling to be free than trust me never late to make a fresh start in your life .Life is all about enjoying every bit of being you .

Trust me there I am telling you from personal experience there is no pleasure in being trap in your own self .

This time , no suggestion this time and no action plan just go out let it go, just keep following your self, try to listen what your inner voice want you to follow , be fearless ,you have all the right to choose what you want in life.

Recognise the area of your life that  you think doesn't allow you to live freely it could be anything may be your job ,your studies, your relationship. 

So if you don't like your job change it I very well understand to take diverse route in job after giving so many years to the particular job but whats the point in being a job that doesn't give you self realization, if it is your course than trust me it the perfect time to pursue something you always wanted and if it is your relationship than just remember there is no point of being with someone by killing yourself , show some mercy to your self .

The day you will free yourself and the day you will realize what your true emotions are only and only than You could say that yes you lived that that will be the moment you'll say you lived once.

Be happy

be blessed 

and cheers to life