TAKE A LOOK INSIDE .

                                          

                         

One night a man was desperately searching for something on the street outside his house under a street light, when his wife figured out this she curiously asked " dear, what are you looking for?" 

He replied ' I lost my gold coin'.

she joined him in the search but after searching for a while she asked " do you remember where you might have dropped it ?"

He said ' of course I do , I  dropped it inside the house in our living room ?' 

She mocked him and ask 'if you lost it inside the house , then why are we looking for it outside.'

He said there was no light inside the house and it was pitch dark inside so I am searching it outside, since there was enough street light here.

controlling her amazement she asked  "if you lost the coin  inside ,how can you even expect to find it out side the house."

He smiled at her and told her the beautiful moral hidden in his act.

we all are seeking out side for what we have lost inside us. why, just because it is dark inside and no light hope is left inside us? Silly isn't it ? 

to fine our lost treasure we need to light the lamp inside and start looking for our real treasure inside us.

As children ,we were all so happy. somewhere along the journey of life we lost our happiness and again where did we start looking for it? Outside!

happiness is an inside job nothing the world outside can make you happy.

Happiness is self generated and that the reason you many time you find people who have much less then you , much happier then you.

happiness is a ongoing process and you are not expected to have unrealistic happiness when you have capability to be immensely happy from within and change you life for a better  you.

when you feel like life is harsh on you, stay calm , hold on the peace within and wait  for your days to change,as this time shall pass too.when your peace is lost remember to look for it inside.

Everyone deserves precious relationships to share his happiness and sorrow but out of these relationships the most important one is the relationship with self. So, some times its perfectly okay to pamper yourself or even over pamper your self , just let it all go and buy yourself an  ice cream or go for a walk alone for sometime or even treating your self with a great movie, gift yourself for no reason. Remember no can make you feel loved, if you don't love yourself and trust me there is now any one is allowed to make you inferior or drained out.

I know you all are familiar with the phrase " if an egg is broken by an outside force, a life ends and if it is broken by an inside force a life begins." you can find all your treasures and motivation inside you, just stop looking for it outside.